Interesting thoughts for February

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THIS page is for some interesting thoughts for February…..
Week of 02/21/22
Sometimes you have to let go, get yourself out of others paths:
What is healthy, wat is not?
It is true; some people cannot see the forest for the trees, they cannot see how they are being manipulated and repeating the same past actions because they are being a puppet, so they are here short term not long term…
Paths are crossed for a reason, season or a lifetime. I live that, I feel it, I try to see it. Sometimes it gets a bit muddled, but I retreat, refresh and get back to it. HAHAHA those are my “long drives” in my favorite vehicle, music at 50 lol, to empty the brain, they regenerate me!
You cannot make anyone see anything, it is up to them. If they do not have the strength or will to see what is happening, let them go down their path alone and possibly miserable.
Some just cannot be taught or see what they have been shown. We can be patient, we can teach, we can show, but we can stop and move on if those things cannot be seen by the ones who need it most. If they cannot pack their bags then, sometimes walking away is what wakes them up……….
Healthy relationships:
By staying in a place not healthy for you, you miss out on what IS healthy.
Healthy is upfront and honest.
Healthy is Trust
Healthy is communication
Healthy is unconditional (Agape; selfless, universal love)
Healthy is involved
Healthy is respecting that person (remember our thoughts on actions)
Healthy is reflecting that person’s value by actions
Healthy is respect

REMEMBER How time flies, do not waste time without commitment and love:
Barely the day started and… it’s already six in the evening.
Barely arrived on Monday and it’s already Friday.
… and the month is already over.
… and the year is almost over.
… and already 40, 50 or 60 years of our lives have passed.
… and we realize that we lost our parents, friends and we realize it’s too late to go back…

Let’s try, despite everything, to enjoy the remaining time…
Let’s keep looking for activities that we like…
Let’s put some color in our grey…
Let’s smile at the little things in life that put balm in our hearts.
Let’s let love in
Let’s start that new path
Let’s not fear

And despite everything, we must continue to enjoy with serenity this time we have left. Let’s try to eliminate the afters…
I’m doing it after…
I’ll say after…
I’ll think about it after…

We leave everything for later like ′′ after ′′ is ours because what we don’t understand is that:
Afterwards, the love left when you thought “I’ll say/show/reflect” later….
Afterwards, the coffee gets cold…
Afterwards, priorities change…
Afterwards, the charm is broken…
Afterwards, health passes…
Afterwards, the kids grow up…
Afterwards parents get old…
Afterwards, promises are forgotten…
Afterwards, the day becomes the night…
Afterwards life ends…
And then it’s often too late….
Let’s leave nothing for later or afterwards…
Because still waiting see you later, we can lose the best moments, the best experiences,
best friends, the best family…

The day is today… The moment is now…
We are no longer at the age where we can afford to postpone what needs to be done right away.
Or maybe you’ll leave it for “later”…

Week of 02/14/22:
Walking away and when to do it:
https://youtu.be/ph9NQ8ASmX4 This is so poignant.
https://youtu.be/k6IskaYerjM You have to see thing for what they are.

Who has the ability to walk away?
It is/Can be a struggle with this action as you have held onto some notion that you can “wait for it to change”, “fix it”, “Make it better”, “Change it”. You cannot. You have to accept that sometimes you cannot even though that is hard. You have to evaluate the effort you have invested, and have others invested as much. You MUST listen to what they say. They do say it, just open your ears as hard as that may be. You can only dismiss what is inevitable for so long, it does happen whether you want to see it or not. Some people are OK with letting you go.
Even I have to let go, as hard as it is. Just because I feel someone is right for me, it is not always the same from their view.

Paths are crossed for a reason, season or a lifetime. Like it or not.
I live that, I feel it, I try to see it. Sometimes it gets a bit muddled, but I retreat, refresh and get back to it. HAHAHA those are my “long drives” in my favorite vehicle, music at 50 lol, to empty the brain, it regenerates me!
For me, I have to shut down my Empath nature to get off a path I am on. I cannot feel emotions and break a path. It is almost unbearable with emotional pain as I let them in, and it may not right for me. That is not why they were put in my path, so need to make a right turn.
People think I am heartless, cold, a bitch. I am not. It is what I have to do to pull the strings out that became embedded, especially if I allowed them in and they end up not worthy of my feelings or make it clear they really do not care to have me in their life in any deep capacity.

What would you do if someone said to you they are not sure if they would want you around as anything more than what it was today, no emotional involvement?
That is them saying to you, you are not for them.
Why would anyone invest time with someone that cannot make a decision if you are for them? The indecision says everything…………….If you were for them, there would not be hesitation, excuses or indecisions.
Sometimes we have to accept that yes, they were put in our path for a reason, acknowledge that reason, then accept that it was not for a “romantic/relationship” or moving into a relationship like that even though you wanted it, they do not. Put it where it belongs.

 

 

 

 

 

As an Empath I know the struggle:
Empaths have the gift to feel.  We feel all the time, through a call, in-person, over a text, doesn’t matter.

We feel the days of the week, other people’s emotions, the vibration of objects and the energy of places.
We are patient, we teach, we show, but we can stop, pull back, block and move on if those things cannot be seen by the ones who need it most. Sometimes that is what wakes them up, even though it may be too late to be together.
To “feel” is what Empaths do and is their most powerful and important gift.
We do attract certain types (including narcissists) and repel others. It is difficult at times, but we are here for a reason and need to understand our path and the reason we are put into others paths.

To some, feeling everything so powerfully may seem more like a curse than a blessing. And until the Empath learns to control it, this gift will indeed seem to be a curse.
An Empath’s brain can overreact to emotions, we learn to stop this from happening.
We know the disruption of chakras impact the our body and mind.
We know why certain foods destroy our emotional wellbeing.
We VERY MUCH know dominant and sometimes overpowering gut sensations and what they mean. Not that we always like it, but we know.
We need to prevent emotional overwhelm.
Empath do get fatigue and have to regenerate.
There are reasons Empaths take instant dislikes to certain people.
It is true that Inauthentic behavior weakens an Empath.
We have to learn whose emotion belongs to whom… and much more.
You have POWER if one is in your path!

Sometimes you have to let go, get out of others path, unfortunately:
It is true; some people cannot see the forest for the trees, they cannot see how they are being manipulated and repeating the same past actions because they are being a puppet, so they are here short term not long term…
You cannot make anyone see anything, it is up to them. If they do not have the strength or will to see what is happening, oh well, let them go down their path alone and miserable.
Some just cannot be taught or see what they have been shown.

    

 

 

 

 


Week of 02/07/22:
This week we’ll address the upcoming “Valentines” Day, that most of us DREAD!

Valentine Day could be a good day or a horrid day, depends on your situation.
The history as with most Holiday’s we recognize started as one thing and ended up completely opposite.  As usual the “Church” in its attempt to  “Christianize” the pagan celebration of Lupercalia which is celebrated at the ides of February, or February 15, (Lupercalia was a fertility festival dedicated to Faunus, the Roman god of agriculture, as well as to the Roman founders Romulus and Remus) changed it to what it is today, along with the date to the 14th.

Lupercalia was many things and at the ending of the day of sacrifice and traditions: according to legend, all the young women in the city would place their names in a big urn. The city’s bachelors would each choose a name and become paired for the year with his chosen woman. These matches often ended in marriage.
Thus today becoming the Day of Love, a Hallmark Holiday.

NOW, how to get through this day, LOL
Love; what a fickle thing it is.  Some feel it, others have no clue.  Some recognize a soulmate, others again, have no clue.  How do you get through/past a day that may not be “your day” per se?

     

 

 

 

Well, we can ignore it, although that is hard to do when everywhere you look it is in your face.  You can embrace it for yourself and use it to heal within.  We can look at it with humor and make sure Cupid knows to only allow the right person around us.  We can use it as a metaphor, to grow, learn about what love really is.  We can use it to get past hurt and prepare ourselves to open up for the right one to come into our path.

What ever method you choose to use to get through/past this day, use it to be better.  Use it to understand unconditional love.  Use it to allow the right person into your path.  Use it to know how to love, not an attempt to manipulate or deceive through the words.  Use it to become healthy in love.